In our experience the following books are the best on abuse and abuse recovery.
Transformation: Containes two chapters on Bible models for abusers and recovery
Alternatives of Domestic Violence: Workbook for Domestic Violence Groups (Secular)
Anger is a choice: A basic book about anger by a Christian author
The Anger Workbook: The core underlying issues that cause long-term anger
Battered into Submission: Covers Christian domestic violence issues
Boundaries: The classical Christian book on establishing personal boundaries
The boundaries workbook: The companion workbook for Boundaries
Helping Victims of Sexaul Abuse: A more general book about sexual abuse
The wounded heart: The most in-depth clinical Christian book on childhood sexual abuse
The wounded heart workbook: The companion workbook for the Wounded Heart.
Treating Childhood Sexual Offenders: This classic secular book gives critical information on how to treat the sexual offender.
Beauty for Ashes: This is the story of how Joyce Meyers overcame her childhood sexual abuse.